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On 2021-06-28 15:50:12Show this Author OnlyDescending Order
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As what the title says, can we stop this toxic culture in the forum. Most people think it is okay since no one is calling them out, but it is not okay. (I am not here to shame anyone, we can be respectful while arguing. Agree to disagree) hehe


You would know if a player is a newbie or an average/expert based on how they react in the forum, especially (but not limited to) in the "news event's cycle" of the forum. Now, I am not saying I'm expert tho, but atleast I try to understand the game first before complaining.


Most of the uninformed/newbie players (no matter how long they have been playing) can only see the "first person point of view" of the current situation that is why they are complaining, while the veterans can see far with their "Bird's eye point of view (both expert F2Ps and expert P2Ws)" cause they understand the game too well and they know how to adjust to it. There are some neutral players who can be influenced by either side, that is why we need to stop this before things can get out of hand. Tho, it is up to all of us which side we want to be on (atleast we are aware).


To be fair, there are some valid complaints out there, but there are others who think they are always right and constantly demand for more. Well next time you see them, you would know.


Hopefully, we can be free of this toxic culture. Everyone has a chance to change for the better. Have fun everyone! Peace out.




This post was last edited by Iamweak on 2021-06-28 15:50:12.
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On 2021-06-28 16:33:41Show this Author Only
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What? you gotta be more specific

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On 2021-06-28 16:49:35Show this Author Only
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Let it sink in, think deep.Observe our Forum and you'll see :) Anyways, this post (if non offensive) can just stay here so people can be informed. Again, have fun!

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On 2021-06-28 19:52:16Show this Author Only
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then you have the 4th category, the guy that always talks about genjutsu, i won't go in details why and how

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On 2021-06-28 19:58:43Show this Author Only
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On 2021-06-29 23:05:02Show this Author Only
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I don't know what you define as "toxic", what you described sounds like a perfectly normal forum dinamic for a game, although i agree with the "...there are others who think they are always right and constantly demand for more." which is true but... so what? it's not like those players even are self-aware enough to be able to know what they are saying is bad, and they are the usual kind who never comes around except for those specific reasons (complaining), so you can hardly consider them part of the "culture" of the forum, they are tourist, basically. The ones that stay are usually just attention seekers, ignore them and that's about it.


By the way, threads like this aren't good because in the end it only calls for innecesary conflict, and a pointless one that is. I'm sure most active people around here already knows whats up, and the others don't care.




This post was last edited by Nomiko on 2021-06-29 23:05:49.
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On 2021-06-29 23:53:52Show this Author Only
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Well thank you for your input, but I disagree.

I won't go into details as what toxic means cause it's very broad topic. I don''t want to point fingers as well, let them realize what they are doing and I will just let others be the judge of those actions. But one thing is for sure, they are growing inside this community, hence becoming a "culture". BTW, you can see how many topics&posts each member had created so that is one indication that "they" are not some random "tourist" out there who visit the forum once in blue moon.


First off, as I mentioned already in my previous comments, I am one of those silent players for years (not expert hehe). Most of the silent majority players "knows the game well enough" and they just remain silent ofc. Now we are silent because we don't actually want attention. As you can see in my account it was only created this June2021 (with my Name as "unrecognizable/anonymous"). And don't worry soon this account will be gone for good, without you even knowing who is behind this haha


But THE CONSTANT REMINDER THAT THERE ARE THOSE SILENT PEOPLE (And hopefully those who were "reminded by this post") WHO ARE WATCHING EVERYMOVE OF EVERYONE in this forum could somehow make players think twice before spreading nonsense hatred and confusion especially that they are active and can highly influence new comers.


Now I could've stayed quiet. Save this information for myself as what most of the silent players are doing. But the way I see it, more and more players complain due to lack of knowledge. If you observe our forum you would've never even questioned this.


It is up to each of us how we interpret this post, but my main goal is not to brag in anyway (cause I am just weak hehe), but to inform and remind.


The question is, what side are we on, what side are you on. Think about it :D


Again, this post (if non offensive) can just stay here so people can be informed. Have fun!




This post was last edited by Iamweak on 2021-06-30 00:04:21.
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On 2021-06-30 00:23:53Show this Author Only
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"Why do people complain, why do people demand, why do people always compare and rant, why are people not satisfied to events, why, why..."


These are "some of the questions" that are somehow related to the "toxicity" in our community without the deeper understanidng of how things work and how the game works, who has control over it. Now I am not saying they are entirely wrong, as I said there are some legit complaints, but the thing is most of those players were just influenced by the others who were just influenced by others as well and so on. and if they keep on doing so, then things can get out of hand.


Again. Hopefully, we can be free of this toxic culture. Everyone has a chance to change for the better. Have fun everyone! Peace out.




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On 2021-06-30 16:07:56Show this Author Only
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  • Iamweak On 2021-06-30 00:23:53
  • "Why do people complain, why do people demand, why do people always compare and rant, why are people not satisfied to events, why, why..."


    These are "some of the questions" that are somehow related to the "toxicity" in our community without the deeper understanidng of how things work and how the game works, who has control over it. Now I am not saying they are entirely wrong, as I said there are some legit complaints, but the thing is most of those players were just influenced by the others who were just influenced by others as well and so on. and if they keep on doing so, then things can get out of hand.


    Again. Hopefully, we can be free of this toxic culture. Everyone has a chance to change for the better. Have fun everyone! Peace out.

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On 2021-06-30 17:17:21Show this Author Only
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"And does CN has this kind of forum as well. No, no, no... I think they are not doing things like this. I demand we should do it how CN does. We should not have our own version of our forum, no, no, no... What we see in China we should see here as well." Sounds familiar, tho?


I understand that this is an example of mocking, but someone asked for a proof. Ofc I don't want to point fingers but you get the point.


Also as I said, those players who do this kinds of toxic commentaries (old players or new) maybe were just influenced by their seniors in this game and they thought it was/is Okay and the act passed down to other generations.


Also I believe those players can change for the better, no one cares about your past (if you are toxic before or not, the important thing is you learned, you improved, you changed). The first step is self awareness, acceptance, then comes self improvement.

I really thought I could let go of this account for good. Seems like others still need some deep explanation. Anyways, goodluck to all. Have fun! Hope this would be my last post. Hehehe


This post (if non abusive) can just stay here so everyone is informed. Thanks!

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Hello guys!


Due to the nature of the thread and the topic slowly getting out of hand, I will be closing this thread.


Please keep in mind that discussions are great, but being disrespectful to your peers is not. You can establish your opinion and point without pointing fingers at any specific person. Please promote a positive atmosphere and not a negative one. Thank you!

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